http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/feed/? Latest topics Sun, 01 Mar 2009 08:11:30 GMT 10 http://illiweb.com/fa/prosilver/site_logo.gif http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/feed/? http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/relationship-dysfunctional-t293.htm MessedUp Ok everyone, It is me Karen and I vanished on you guys for a while. I met a guy. A great guy. We have become inseperable and life was great again. Something I thought I would never feel after MM. We have been going place and takes me out dancing, movies, and the other blah blah blah things couples do. Very affectionate man. We became so close so quickly. My son likes him, my parents like him, he is very cute (or at least to me). Displays the only one woman for me qualities. I am 46 and he is ... Life Beyond Sun, 01 Mar 2009 08:11:30 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/relationship-dysfunctional-t293.htm#2300 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/relationship-dysfunctional-t293.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/where-were-you-this-time-last-year-t285.htm Admin As the new year starts...I am reminded of where I was this time last year....I was dreadfully sick with bronchitis (third year in a row) I was in a lawsuit with my ex (again, 3rd year in a row) and I was pining away for MW...missing her so much that I could not even function properly..and it was a little worse the year before... So here I am..sitting here on a Friday night getting ready to go and have dinner with my beautiful love and getting better each day. I know all too well how it ... Life Beyond Fri, 02 Jan 2009 22:15:52 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/where-were-you-this-time-last-year-t285.htm#2268 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/where-were-you-this-time-last-year-t285.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/the-best-part-of-recovery-t291.htm Admin Hi All~ It's been nice and quiet with everyone..and it seems like many of us ARE really making progress. Oh sure, you're still going to feel a little pain here and there..but the best part of recovery is when you look back and you can see the destruction, but when you look forward you can finally see a clear path..a new journey so to speak. While I may still have a few pangs here and there, I no longer feel the desperation i once felt..the hopelessness of being stuck..and knowing i was ... Life Beyond Tue, 27 Jan 2009 20:25:05 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/the-best-part-of-recovery-t291.htm#2286 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/the-best-part-of-recovery-t291.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/from-long-lost-orienne-t290.htm Orienne Hi everyone....don't know if you remember me - I was a member more that one year ago. My MM got kicked out and took up with a woman in the office...proceeding to break my heart. I finally moved to another office, she moved in with him. In the meantime, I hooked up with a wonderful man, a prostate cancer surviver, senitivie, almost a metro-sexual. (He models as a hobby). To make a long story short, I fell in love, he checked out of our relationship, and forgot to tell me. I found out during ... Life Beyond Thu, 15 Jan 2009 00:48:05 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/from-long-lost-orienne-t290.htm#2281 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/from-long-lost-orienne-t290.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/the-healing-library-f4/because-it-s-broken-t289.htm Orienne
Haven't been here in a while. I am once again trying to teach myself to heal. A friend recommended "It's called a breakup, because it's broken" by Greg Beherenger his wife.
It has some valid points.......and phrases in a light funny way.

My regards to all, and greetings as well....
O.]]> The Healing Library Thu, 15 Jan 2009 00:38:07 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/the-healing-library-f4/because-it-s-broken-t289.htm#2280 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/the-healing-library-f4/because-it-s-broken-t289.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/the-chatter-t288.htm Admin Hi All~ Each day I feel just "that much" stronger....the reason i feel as if I still need a long way to go is something called chatter....this chatter was very loud to me when i first started dating my girlfriend...i was very scared of it and I wanted to know if anyone here has had it. Basically the chatter starts while I am alone...i could be in the car and i hear a trigger such as a song, or maybe something reminds me of MW...and then my brain goes haywire...I hear her in my ... Life Beyond Sun, 11 Jan 2009 22:11:23 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/the-chatter-t288.htm#2278 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/the-chatter-t288.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/journal-t286.htm Admin Hi all~ In one of my last posts, I mentioned "where were you this time last year?" Well, I thought I was in bad shape...but apparently, my mind sugar coated it!!!!!! I had been journaling for the past 13 years when I started to go through my divorce....I would write down my feelings (how I REALLY felt) and what I thought was causing those feelings, whether good or bad! I wrote a lot about when my affair started and how scared I was of getting caught. I also wrote how painful ... Life Beyond Mon, 05 Jan 2009 14:44:43 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/journal-t286.htm#2272 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/journal-t286.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/thank-you-t287.htm Admin Hi All~ I posted something similar on another site and felt compelled to thank everyone here too! As a man who was involved for almost 4 years, I too sort of felt lost. After D-Day, I started getting the sense that "this was how it was always going to be!" I worked on me for a change. I stopped hanging with the people that embraced my affair. I started hanging out with people who were on a path of healthy. I started writing down my goals and reading them as ... Life Beyond Thu, 08 Jan 2009 15:02:38 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/thank-you-t287.htm#2273 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/thank-you-t287.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/hey-everyone-t279.htm Toledorio Sorry for not being here for 2 weeks. Between my brother's cancer scare and dealing with an ex wife I distanced myself from a lot of people and that is not good. During the whole fiasco I was flipping through channels and came across the Country Music Awards and for whatever reason it triggered memories of my MW. WTF???? WHERE DID THIS COME FROM? WHY AM I GETTING THEM NOW? Anyways, I have had her in the back of my mind for whatever reason and it sucks. I know I need to refocus on moving forward ... Life Beyond Thu, 20 Nov 2008 21:49:51 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/hey-everyone-t279.htm#2239 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/hey-everyone-t279.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/getting-past-the-past-t283.htm Admin I feel like my world is finally opening up...putting my past in my past...and it has not been easy for me...it's been more difficult than anything I have ever done...to close the door to my relationship with MW...my memories...my past..in an effort to finally live in the moment..in an effort to finally start living for my future.... i know that there are some that may envy me, but all I can say is that if i did not start living for today, i was going to die for everything of yesterday! I ... Life Beyond Mon, 22 Dec 2008 03:53:43 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/getting-past-the-past-t283.htm#2253 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/getting-past-the-past-t283.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/it-s-getting-better-all-the-tiime-t282.htm Admin Hi All~ I just have this sense in my gut that many of you are slowly getting back into your life again without the MP. this does not mean that you have all but forgotten that MP, but the realities of the situation are getting more real to you. I know for me that I had to really hit bottom before I could get my way out of my crap. And looking back, it just seems to get more clear how much crap I endured. As I had predicted, my MW is still in her shitty situation and still complaining ... Life Beyond Thu, 18 Dec 2008 14:12:38 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/it-s-getting-better-all-the-tiime-t282.htm#2248 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/it-s-getting-better-all-the-tiime-t282.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/moving-on-t281.htm Admin Hi All~ Well, my girlfriend met my family at a huge wedding (my nephew). We stayed at a posh resort on Jekyll island for the weekend and I proudly introduced my girlfriend to my family. Many family members came up to me and said I never looked so happy. They raved at how well my girlfriend looked and how she fit into the family (she has incredible wit..comes from a large italian family and I come from a large Jewish family)... Needless to say, we had an incredibly romantic time (snuck ... Life Beyond Mon, 08 Dec 2008 13:14:30 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/moving-on-t281.htm#2247 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/moving-on-t281.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/it-s-getting-better-all-the-time-t280.htm Admin Hi all~ I know it's been all quiet on the western front....and that could mean that we're all learning how to move forward...to start living again...to start breathing and even loving again! Think about where you were this time LAST year..you may not think you have moved forward, but you REALLY have. and as this year comes to a close, I want to wish all of you the very best in the coming year...you are all my inspiration to keep moving forward!!! I cannot thank you enough. and ... Life Beyond Tue, 02 Dec 2008 03:10:44 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/it-s-getting-better-all-the-time-t280.htm#2245 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/it-s-getting-better-all-the-time-t280.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/what-does-it-take-t278.htm Admin Hi All~ I spent part of last weekend reading and re-reading some of my old journal entries as well as some of my earlier posts here...There are times when I think I have made NO progress, but I no longer have that pain that just sat with me. The bad part is, i remember that pain so vividly that sometimes I just felt like it was normal to have it....and then I guess I just got tired of being tired...I think what keeps me tied here is that fact that I am soooo scared of falling backward ... Life Beyond Wed, 19 Nov 2008 06:00:30 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/what-does-it-take-t278.htm#2238 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/what-does-it-take-t278.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/why-and-a-challenge-for-all-of-us-t250.htm MessedUp Why have we all stopped talking here. we need the encouragement to move forward with our lives. I know we are either out here making good on our lives or we are not. If we are lets hear some of the good things here. If not lets see the posting on the other path were we support each other. Everyone had been quiet for so long. Lets not let this support group fall out of touch. We are here and just because some of us were doing better it doesn't mean we can't still help others who have the ... Life Beyond Fri, 15 Aug 2008 02:29:27 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/why-and-a-challenge-for-all-of-us-t250.htm#2005 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/why-and-a-challenge-for-all-of-us-t250.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/the-healing-library-f4/books-and-topics-to-help-us-heal-t110.htm Admin Here's the place where we can show a list of helpful books. I will be putting up a link to amazon.com so you can order the book right on line. I highly recommend getting into their used book area, you can save a lot of bucks on fairly used books. Any ideas would be helpful here The Healing Library Thu, 17 Jan 2008 03:06:57 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/the-healing-library-f4/books-and-topics-to-help-us-heal-t110.htm#826 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/the-healing-library-f4/books-and-topics-to-help-us-heal-t110.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/updates-on-everyone-t276.htm Toledorio
I found out Monday my oldst brither has colon cancer but it has been treated and the grow has been removed. We will know much more in the next few days. Something like that puts life in perspective and I encourage each and everyone of us to live life to the fullest and move on from our past. Life is too short.]]> Life Beyond Wed, 05 Nov 2008 16:12:28 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/updates-on-everyone-t276.htm#2216 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/updates-on-everyone-t276.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/my-wish-t275.htm Admin Many have commented that this time of the year brings back a FLOOD of memories for us. I am not immune to this time as I met my MW in the fall...it was very special to me... I can look back and put it in its place and with all memories, sometimes I am not sure if I remembered things correctly or just the way I WANT to remember them. As we approach the winter months, I am reminded of the first D-day and I start to reflect on all the pain. i don't miss that pain any more..it was such a ... Life Beyond Fri, 31 Oct 2008 20:04:53 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/my-wish-t275.htm#2210 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/my-wish-t275.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/what-is-going-on-with-everyone-t273.htm Toledorio Thought I would put a new post up to see where everyone is at and also what are your plans for the weekend. I have a date friday night in Ann Arbor for sushi which I cannot wait for and headed to Indiana Sunday. How about everyone else? Life Beyond Thu, 30 Oct 2008 00:58:59 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/what-is-going-on-with-everyone-t273.htm#2201 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/what-is-going-on-with-everyone-t273.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/trying-to-keep-busy-i-need-breast-cancer-fund-raiser-ideas-t274.htm MessedUp I became involved with a local lodge in the area. I have participated in some of their fundraiser events. One was a couple of months ago and it was putting a basket of cheer together to be raffled off at a creab feast. Well one of the ladies who is some officer for the ladies group asked me to participate in a Breast Cancer fund raiser. Since I am a survivor she thought I wold be a good candidate to ask for help. Well I went to meet with her and it seems this one is a little more involved. The ... Life Beyond Thu, 30 Oct 2008 01:08:45 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/trying-to-keep-busy-i-need-breast-cancer-fund-raiser-ideas-t274.htm#2202 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/trying-to-keep-busy-i-need-breast-cancer-fund-raiser-ideas-t274.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/enough-the-time-is-now-for-all-of-us-to-take-back-our-lives-t271.htm Toledorio I have had a whirlwind last month in my life. Between getting dumped by a woman who went back with her ex boyfriend, My ex wife causing havoc in my life, Lisa causing hell here and my XMW contacting me I found myself in such a funk i thought I never would get out of it. But sommething happened this week to me. I met someone who really is into me big time and showed me a lot of attention and we have several things in common. better yet she is SINGLE. I will get back to that in a moment though. ... Life Beyond Sun, 26 Oct 2008 00:44:57 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/enough-the-time-is-now-for-all-of-us-to-take-back-our-lives-t271.htm#2185 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/enough-the-time-is-now-for-all-of-us-to-take-back-our-lives-t271.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/i-can-see-the-light-t272.htm Admin Hi All~ I have been reflecting a lot about Don's statements..and I have to say I am deeply moved by the progress...I think for many of us, we feel like we go backwards sometimes. I can say that for the longest time I felt like I would NEVER get out of this mess. And slowly (and I mean S L O W L Y!) I got back on my feet. I realize how difficult it is to get over this thing. I have several friends who often wonder why or how i could get myself in so deeply. sometimes I have to say it's ... Life Beyond Mon, 27 Oct 2008 16:51:38 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/i-can-see-the-light-t272.htm#2192 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/i-can-see-the-light-t272.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/very-hurtful-t269.htm Admin Well folks, This one takes the cake.....remember when a young woman came on here and I thought it was Lisa....well the IP address checks in with many of Lisa's posts...oh and there's a new person on here tonight who private messaged me..well that MAN is also Lisa....oh, and Horsewithname..that's Lisa too! And Lisa's boyfriend who joined here months ago..that's Lisa too!!! Lisa has singlehandedly hurt the integrity of our group. she has undermined all the work that I have tried to ... Life Beyond Tue, 21 Oct 2008 06:17:34 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/very-hurtful-t269.htm#2163 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/very-hurtful-t269.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/what-would-happen-to-our-group-t266.htm Dulce SD - This is gong to seem weird, I know, but...........if we get well, if overcome this cursed state of being in love with a married person....what would happen to our group? I don't want to lose our group...........I think I'm discovering some attachment issues I never knew I had. Finding reciprocal, available love after this must be absolute heaven. Mind if I ask, what was your "mindset" just before this happened? Did this new person sweep you ff your feet? Every ... Life Beyond Sun, 19 Oct 2008 13:21:34 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/what-would-happen-to-our-group-t266.htm#2140 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/what-would-happen-to-our-group-t266.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/what-do-you-think-t270.htm Admin .... Life Beyond Tue, 21 Oct 2008 21:21:15 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/what-do-you-think-t270.htm#2173 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/what-do-you-think-t270.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/passion-t215.htm Admin One of the things that is helping me heal is to make a list of things, people, and subjects that I am passionate about... For me, I am very passionate about music. In the past, I have hosted "house concerts" in which I find acoustic singer/songwriters that i find interesting and I host a concert for them. I have a room in my home that I designed for such a purpose..it's hardwood floor, catherdral ceiling (about 17-20 ft) and it is 26 feet long by 16 feet wide...it also open out ... Life Beyond Sun, 30 Mar 2008 17:01:04 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/passion-t215.htm#1774 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/passion-t215.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/i-feel-very-lost-t255.htm Toledorio I cant believe it has been 7 month since I had any contact with MW and I miss her completly still. Maybe it is because I am feeling lonely and I have had no success dating either because the other women I have met don't compare to her either. I did something I havent done in over 6 months and that was drive by her house the other day AND last night and her vehicle is no longer there. I see a VW Bug and the Jeep Wrangler that sits in the driveway along with a broken down bus which needs work. ... Life Beyond Tue, 09 Sep 2008 12:14:09 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/i-feel-very-lost-t255.htm#2038 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/i-feel-very-lost-t255.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/she-contacted-me-t262.htm Toledorio For the first time in EXACTLY 8 months I heard from MW on saturday night via a text message. She basically said hi and wanted to see how i was doing. Our last conversation ended with a lot of name calling and anger. I did let her know that she has been on my ming and she will always be in my heart. I was hoping this could be our closer and we can move on. I would like to tell everyone that even though my heart ached and I missed her I knew not contacting her has been the bet thing for me to move ... Life Beyond Mon, 06 Oct 2008 23:04:31 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/she-contacted-me-t262.htm#2086 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/she-contacted-me-t262.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/it-s-another-saturday-night-and-i-ain-t-got-nobody-t259.htm horsewithnoname
Anyone else think this just plain sucks?

Horse]]> Life Beyond Sun, 05 Oct 2008 01:15:51 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/it-s-another-saturday-night-and-i-ain-t-got-nobody-t259.htm#2069 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/it-s-another-saturday-night-and-i-ain-t-got-nobody-t259.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/would-you-ever-consider-t257.htm horsewithnoname
Horse]]> Life Beyond Thu, 25 Sep 2008 23:24:49 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/would-you-ever-consider-t257.htm#2056 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/would-you-ever-consider-t257.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/the-future-t256.htm MessedUp As we travel down this road of life we have many paths to choose from. Each one can lead us in a different direction. Sometimes when we are on a path that creates bad emotions for us we become afraid to take the step onto a new path. If we pay attention and choose our paths wisely we can all end up on the path SD has found. His last messages to us gave me new hope and helped me to clear my vision for the future instead of drowning in the past. One day I hope and pray all of here will find ... Life Beyond Fri, 19 Sep 2008 02:48:08 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/the-future-t256.htm#2050 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/the-future-t256.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/it-is-possible-t254.htm Admin The past 3 months has been an incredible journey for me. I finally felt that confidence to walk away from everything to do with my MW. It was painful for me, but I decided to not tell anyone how painful it had been. Then I started making a list of everything that bothered me about being in an affair. I hated not being able to talk when I wanted to talk, or kiss in public, or hold hands in public or being hung up on in the middle of a conversation... I "scripted" my wants, needs ... Life Beyond Mon, 01 Sep 2008 14:50:24 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/it-is-possible-t254.htm#2036 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/it-is-possible-t254.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/finally-t253.htm Admin Well, after finally feeling like I have worked through as much as I can work through with regard to MW, I worked on NC...and that would go well for about 2-3 weeks...and then one of us would fall back into it... and then we'd have a month or so of "I miss you" but still not much of anything... And then I just got tired..tired of being a second choice..tired of passing up other women..tired of being alone...tired of making one excuse after another...tired of not being held when ... Life Beyond Tue, 26 Aug 2008 14:32:12 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/finally-t253.htm#2027 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/finally-t253.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/4th-of-july-t246.htm MessedUp
I took a little bit of a road trip. Back home today and gonna visit with my family. My sister may be down and it has been a long time since she has been to visit my parents so they should be very happy to see her. Raining here today so maybe get some seafood and cook inside. Crabs would be nice.]]> Life Beyond Sun, 06 Jul 2008 16:15:53 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/4th-of-july-t246.htm#1966 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/4th-of-july-t246.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/thank-you-t241.htm punjabi_angeluk
Its a shame the site is not used so much these days, but I guess its a sign that people have moved on and getting on with their lives.

Whilst things are still not easy for me. I guess life was never meant to be


lots of love xxxx]]> Life Beyond Fri, 23 May 2008 20:24:56 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/thank-you-t241.htm#1946 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/thank-you-t241.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/first-race-t239.htm MessedUp We did our first sailboat race. It was a small event of about a dozen boats. We came in thrid place. Life Beyond Fri, 16 May 2008 14:59:58 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/first-race-t239.htm#1939 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/first-race-t239.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/rainy-day-t240.htm MessedUp Its a rainy day here. Everyone has been a little quiet lately. I cleaned out two closets at my house and its only noon now. I am kinda feeling lost today and was hoping to get on here and feel close to friends. What is everyone up to? I am feeling lonely. Life Beyond Sun, 18 May 2008 16:02:10 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/rainy-day-t240.htm#1942 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/rainy-day-t240.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/come-out-come-out-t236.htm Gemini Just wondering where everyone is & how ya'll are doin. I went to a job fair today & applied for a manager's position at a store that is opening in our area. I think I did well. I got three interviews. The they had me take a 200 question test. The girl I went with didn't get the test. They let her go after the interview rounds. So I am going to assume that I must be in some form of consideration for one of the openings to have taken the extra test. Keep your fingers crossed for me. I ... Life Beyond Fri, 02 May 2008 23:24:35 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/come-out-come-out-t236.htm#1914 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/come-out-come-out-t236.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/when-did-you-realize-t234.htm Admin
I was thinking about this a lot...at what point or what was the straw that broke the camel's back that got you to stop! Even though I struggle with my feelings about MW....I am struggling with it all as my life slips back into my own...and I am not sure if I have hit that moment of the camel's back breaking, but I am at a point of not feeling the feelings i used to have about her...

your thoughts?]]> Life Beyond Mon, 28 Apr 2008 10:51:28 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/when-did-you-realize-t234.htm#1904 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/when-did-you-realize-t234.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/taught-my-first-lesson-today-t233.htm Mandy Hi Y'all, Sorry that I haven't been here more, but I have been swamped with school work. I taught my first German lesson to actual high school students today. I taught one lesson to two different classes. The first one was pretty easy, but the second was more challenging. It was a real relief to make it through. Now, I have to finish this semester, take 3 classes in the summer, complete the fall semester, then I will student teach in the spring. After that I will graduate!!!!!! ... Life Beyond Fri, 25 Apr 2008 22:16:38 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/taught-my-first-lesson-today-t233.htm#1896 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/taught-my-first-lesson-today-t233.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/dreamin-t232.htm Gemini I have a "dream" so to speak. I want to open my own studio. I just got my camera fixed, after it being down for over a year. I got a door latch assembly so that I could fix it on my own. The local dealer wanted $140 to fix it plus the cost of parts. After a $11 bid & about 2 hrs of taking the camera apart & putting it together, it now works fine. I have customers coming into my new job asking when I'll be doing photography again. So my plan for now it to try to get some sittings ... Life Beyond Fri, 25 Apr 2008 00:42:00 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/dreamin-t232.htm#1888 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/dreamin-t232.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/how-was-your-weekend-t226.htm MessedUp
I went on a sailing trip with some people at work and had a wonderful time. This was my frist time on a sailboat. I came from the power boat background. It was nothing like I thought it would be. I will be doing it again.]]> Life Beyond Sun, 13 Apr 2008 16:46:59 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/how-was-your-weekend-t226.htm#1843 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/how-was-your-weekend-t226.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/own-your-day-t228.htm Admin I have a close friend. Every time I call her, she's tired..tired of running, tired of taking care of her kids, tired of school, tired of her assignments...in otherwords, everyone owns her day instead of her. Listen, we all have the same 24 hours as everyone else...and 8 of it should be devoted to sleep/rest...afterall you have to recharge and take care of that body of yours. Then you should probably have another 8 hours devoted to supporting your life, ie. work. Many paople I know HATE ... Life Beyond Wed, 16 Apr 2008 18:00:28 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/own-your-day-t228.htm#1856 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/own-your-day-t228.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/i-have-a-date-with-mrs-mm-t222.htm punjabi_angeluk Hi everyone I hope all are coping well. I have one wife on my hands who has been around to my parents house and told them their daughter has been sleeping with her husband. This women wants to talk to me and I am going to speak to her. My aim is to diffuse the situation and pacify her as much as i can. I do not want to cause further trouble for myself, my family and MM. I dont know what she wants from me, what answers can i give her. All i can say is that i am sorry ... Life Beyond Sat, 05 Apr 2008 15:12:11 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/i-have-a-date-with-mrs-mm-t222.htm#1806 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/i-have-a-date-with-mrs-mm-t222.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/today-i-feel-t218.htm Gemini Restless.. I feel restless because it feels like no matter how hard I try nothing seems to be going right. I just don't seem to have the patience to wait for things to fall into place. I have been putting out new applications and sending out resumes. I haven't ever been very good at the waiting game. I started this thread because I thought it can be a good place to stop & just say hi or to vent a little without having to be under any certain topic. Feel free to add how your day ... Life Beyond Tue, 01 Apr 2008 01:36:50 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/today-i-feel-t218.htm#1787 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/today-i-feel-t218.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/affirmations-f5/april-begins-clarity-month-t219.htm Admin April 1, Positive Affirmation for Clarity I give myself permission to release toxicity, easily and effortlessly from every level of the energy field. The Angel of Clarity carries away heavy distortions. Greetings! Our theme is Clarity. This first week of the month we work with releasing and cleansing non-clarity. Following today’s affirmation are comments about the affirmation, suggestions for your process, and information about related articles. About Today’s ... Affirmations Tue, 01 Apr 2008 11:07:49 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/affirmations-f5/april-begins-clarity-month-t219.htm#1788 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/affirmations-f5/april-begins-clarity-month-t219.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/affirmations-f5/another-on-balance-t217.htm Admin March 31, Positive Affirmation for Balance Today is an opportunity for balance. Greetings! Our theme is Balance. These last days of the month we work with integrating and embodying balance. Following today’s affirmation are comments about the affirmation, suggestions for your process, and information about related articles. About Today’s Affirmation Today is all you have. The past and future are helpful reference points, but you can only live today. It is an ... Affirmations Mon, 31 Mar 2008 10:51:24 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/affirmations-f5/another-on-balance-t217.htm#1782 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/affirmations-f5/another-on-balance-t217.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/chats-t216.htm Anonymous Are we still having weekly chats?

I can no longer make 8 am on Saturday mornings available because I am with my son at that time.

Any other times suggested? I could make 9 pm on Sunday nights if any one else can. ]]> Life Beyond Mon, 31 Mar 2008 00:55:41 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/chats-t216.htm#1776 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/chats-t216.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/new-look-t211.htm Anonymous As much as I do like the idea of a new look, I don't like the white on blue and the background is too dark,It is hard for me to see. Iis there any possibility of a dif color scheme and a lighter background? Thanks for your efforts, SD]]> Life Beyond Fri, 28 Mar 2008 13:46:38 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/new-look-t211.htm#1757 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/new-look-t211.htm http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/hobbies-t206.htm MessedUp Since the new area was open and nothing was posted I decided to be the first. We all know some stuff about each other but what kind of hobbies do you have. Maybe some of us have some common interests. My hobbies are anything to do with the outdoors. I have a group of critters that I feed. They are wild but we have made friends. If I knew how to post a picture I would. Maybe I can get one on my profile. I have several raccoons, fox, ground hogs, dear, possum and squirrel that I feed. The ... Life Beyond Mon, 24 Mar 2008 21:44:15 GMT http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/hobbies-t206.htm#1706 http://theotherperson.forumotion.com/life-beyond-f6/hobbies-t206.htm