It is Possible

The past 3 months has been an incredible journey for me. I finally felt that confidence to walk away from everything to do with my MW. It was painful for me, but I decided to not tell anyone how painful it had been.

Then I started making a list of everything that bothered me about being in an affair. I hated not being able to talk when I wanted to talk, or kiss in public, or hold hands in public or being hung up on in the middle of a conversation...

I "scripted" my wants, needs and desires...I even put it out there in the universe that I deserved a healthy monogamous relationship....

I did the work and now it was God's turn...let it just happen...and it did. I am so proud to say that I have met the most incredible, beautiful woman. I told myself I never want to give her reason to doubt me. That is why there can never be contact with MW again....not even to tell her I have met someone incredible...

And as I got up this morning, I realized that this long journey of pain (over a year and half after D-Day) that the road of pain has finally ended for me. I am now on a new path of freedom, love, passion, honesty and trust with a woman who is only to me as I am only to her!

I smiled and thought, wow, it really is possible!

Thank you so much for your love, kindness and support over the yearlong journey through what I would call the most painful period of my life. I know I could not have made it through without your support. I am truly happy, content and most of all, pain free! It really is possible!

All my best to everyone here as always,
SingleDad

SD I am so happy for you. I look at your situation and think wow it is possible. I hope each and everyone of us here end up happy and content someday. We all deserve it....

Take care of yourself and your New lady

Kate

That is great news SD. Sometimes we just have to stop going with the flow in life and swim against the current. It can be hard to give someone a chance when we've make these poor choices and caused our own strife. It's as if we don't trust ourselves.

Anyway, that is encouraging news.

SD,

It was a hard road but you made it. Keep us posted every once in a while so we can be jealous of you instead of our MP.

It sounds like you are happy now and that is what matters.

Can I grow up and be like you one day? My difficult time is coming soon with the weather change. When it gets cold I can't spend as much time on the water. Did get a wet suit so I can keep on the jet ski for a while.